About the DOTS ...

Thinking about what my friends are to me ... " ... At the end, you can’t connect the DOTS looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future, you have to trust on something: God, destiny, life, karma… whatever. Because believing that the dots will connect during the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart..." Steve Jobs.

There are so many things that you don’t know about me, sometimes I think I am too strict with the people and with myself. Today, I am going to talk about the application of my rigidity with my friends and what is exactly for me “a friend”, then maybe you will understand my points of view of a lot of things that happened during this month.

Well, I know you are going to look at this as a crazy stuff but, there is no friend of mine that can be just a coincidence in my life. When I meet the people, the first thing that is coming to my mind is “Why are we here? Why am I meeting you now?” no matter which person is. I am always inquiring around it because I really believe that there is a connection between everything you have; so then, I am always seeing the people, my friends, and the positive and negative things that happen to me as A DOT. And that’s why I am always trying to determine the connection between the dots in my life. I think I can be helpful for the development of my future not only studying but trying to connect the dots just before something is going to happen.

There are a lot of stories that made me think like that some time ago. If you are my friend, I want you to know that I am studying you all the time, looking your positive and negative answers to your life, the way you look, the way you act, all the ways on you, because I know that many of your ways to be, are affecting my ways to do and to see the things, because we are human and we can be influenced easily. If you are my friend is because you have something big I am interested in, something I can copy and improve. None of my friends are considered as it because of its unconditional way, actually I don’t believe that word can exist. You are my friend because there is a powerful thing on you that will contribute during my way to my vision.

Maybe, the previous explanation can make you feel as a simple thing for me. I will be direct with you, that’s the way I learned of how to see the people, and actually that’s the world, is all about networking. You’re not just a thing for me, you are one of the dots on my way to a happy life, you are part of my selected circle of friends and I am really happy that you are into my life.

The only thing I expect from you is that you get your life organized and start seeing the people as a dot, because if not, you are going to be a different person every day, and you are going to depend of the people that is around you to determine who you are every day of your life, and you will be part of the dreams of your friends but you will never follow your dream. With those words, I am trying to tell you that maybe at any time you will be not a dot of my life anymore. And maybe you cannot understand me now, because you are not planning your future around the dots that you have, but someday you will wake up and you are going to realize how much did you lose, how many moments, how many dreams …. Just because you are going to be someone you don’t know.

I am really sorry about the persons that were my friends some time ago, but if they are not my friends anymore, is because I took the decision, they are not a dot anymore, not even a connection for me. Maybe they were going by another way that was not mine, another way that was against my dreams, against my heart…

Actually, this post is dedicated to them .... Hope now you can understand ...